“I think that’s the biggest misconception that you know, at least for me, that I’m a fighter when I’m actually a lover,” she said. Regardless of how passionate or feisty she is, she maintains that she didn’t put her hands on Joe. According to Tahiry, people don’t know the real her, so it can be easy for them to accept the narrative portrayed through shows she’s participated in that give the impression that she’s more of a fighter than a lover. Later in the video, the two discussed how as a society, women not only endure abuse but also often are tasked with taking the responsibility for why the abuse happened through victim-blaming. And it’s just a difficult space to be in so that’s why sometimes I just chill out and do my healing by myself.” Because all people wanna do is bash you and don’t have the slightest clue to what really happened. Even the situation that I just had when I stepped up and talked about being abused in a relationship…sometimes I look back and it’s just like this is why it took so long for me to speak up. “Again, those that know me, know me, and that’s all that matters. “I tend to try to keep my sh-t personal,” she said to Alicia Lyons. However, she said she, and those who know her, know her truth. Hit the flip to see what she says about what she allegedly endured.In the Live, Tahiry explained that as someone who usually likes to keep the details of her relationships private, being bashed and judged for coming forward with the abuse she’s endured in the past was difficult for her. Jose says things went quite differently than what he claimed. “She was dead caught cheating and I was fresh off tour and I was like ‘What’s up? You’re caught, you’re busted.’” And I think she was asking to get mushed,” he told Angela Yee. He claimed he only “mushed” her (which is still a no-no). As for Budden’s account of things, and he has been accused of abuse to the point of miscarriage before by model Esther Baxter, he claimed in 2010 that he did put his hands on Jose at one time after finding out she was allegedly cheating. She also speaks on what it’s like to be abused and still want to deal with the person who did you harm. She shared that after Budden spoke about her situation gone viral with Vado on his podcast, she could no longer keep quiet, especially when she says he’s lied about his own abuse towards her forever.ĭuring the chat with Lee, she opened up about verbal abuse leading to physical abuse, and how her decision to try and leave him allegedly ended with her being thrown down the stairs. “I’ve had to endure this bully for the last 10 years. In the season of Love and Hip Hop New York that just finished, she was caught in something of a love triangle with him and the mother of his son, Cyn Santana. And she is well-aware of the fact that people may look at her and be skeptical of her story, considering she and Budden have been so friendly in the past. After a number of seconds of Jose trying to find the right words, she said he was indeed her abuser. When talking about how she dealt with an abusive relationship before that situation, host Jason Lee asked her point blank if Budden was her abusive ex. The conversation came about when Jose was speaking on her ex and former friend Vado, whom she appeared on Marriage Boot Camp with and who infamously grabbed her up in a forceful way on the show. She claimed the rapper and popular podcaster beat her during their past relationship to the point where he fractured her rib and broke her nose. This time, she didn’t hold anything back speaking on the matter. Source: Brian Ach/Getty Images for Vh1 / Gettyĭuring an interview with Tahiry Jose on Hollywood Unlockedthat was released on Monday, the reality star opened up about past allegations that she endured abuse from her ex Joe Budden.
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